1. He Wants You to Take Charge
Men prefer leading their bed, and appreciate when women allow them to do so. One of his top desires in bed is for you to express what your like and don't like about him - one thing he may especially look forward to hearing is your feedback about things like taste.
If he always performs oral sex during foreplay and sex, suggest trying alternative forms of sexual pleasure as part of your foreplay and sex session. He might find this exciting, and may even go further with you than before!
Get on top of him while he's midstroke or climax and watch their reaction! It will surely elicit much pleasure - he will most likely ask you back for more in no time!
2. He Wants You to Communicate
At any point in time, communicating with your man should always be top of mind, yet intimate moments may not be an appropriate time to discuss grocery lists and trash pickup. Instead, let him know what you enjoy most in bed by moaning, groaning and screaming to increase what ignites passion in bed - this will only deepen intimacy while heightening sensuality further.
Your partner wants the bedroom to feel like his personal sanctuary, so make him feel special by creating a signature move just for him and calling it after him. Doing this will give him the feeling that they're the only man on Earth while setting him into an intimate mood!
Men crave being desired, yet don't always know it. Flirting and acting romantic toward him outside the bedroom are easy ways to show them you want them.
3. He Wants You to Be Spontaneous
Men crave spontaneity in the bedroom and create their own experience when it comes to sexual intimacy. While some couples enjoy scheduling or following a set pattern each time they engage in sexual encounters, sometimes taking your sexy experience outside the bedroom can add another element of sensuality and enjoyment.
Bring him into a different environment can be the ideal way to surprise and excite your partner, keeping the spark alive. Additionally, try different positions such as cowgirl or missionary for maximum arousal!
Spontaneous Desire and Responsive Desire should also be understood, with Spontaneous Desire being more outgoing and Spontaneous Desire being more introverted. Knowing which type your partner tends toward can help create the right intimate environment - for instance if they tend towards introversion then extra encouragement may be required in the form of soft suggestions or even just whispered invitations to come to an intimate party!
4. He Wants You to Be Active
Men need sexual satisfaction as much as women do, and they love feeling stimulated during sex. Although they don't require lengthy monologues during sex sessions, adding phrases and compliments can enhance the experience further for them - just be cautious not to go overboard, which could turn them off instead of turning them on!
Another way to entice him is through visual feedback. A longing gaze, touch on the thigh or butt grab can give him the satisfaction that keeps them wanting more! Additionally, changing up positions or offering something different such as toys may add variety and keep him intrigued and wanting more!
Men appreciate women who are fully present during intimate moments - this means putting away phones, tablets and other forms of distraction during intimate interactions. Engaging fully in each moment strengthens your connection and can extend sleep sessions longer. Plus, being fully immersed helps him feel safe and secure which is an integral component of relationships. So make sex about the two of you by giving him all your focus while taking pleasure from his sexiness!
5. He Wants You to Have Fun
Guys may feel trapped into an unrealistic sexual script which demands they initiate sexual contact, do the physical labor required and maintain an erection - creating unnecessary stress in long-term relationships. Therefore, it's essential to remember that sex can be just as enjoyable for men, with many preferring slow encounters where both partners take it slow while gazing lovingly into each other's eyes while making love.
So the next time you're in bed, don't be shy to let him know what motivates you - whether verbally or nonverbally! For instance, gently stroking your clitoris or using a sex toy to explore his crotch can be immensely satisfying for both of you and will surely leave him wanting more! For more insight into what men find attractive about bed, check out this article from Cafe Mom or The Cut - but remember always have fun while staying safe - while always maintaining good oral etiquette!
